What you will find below are SIGNS to look for in an unfaithful spouse or lover.
Will begin "working late" when they seldom
have in the past.
Will often lose SEXUAL interest
in their spouse or lover.
Will frequently have unexplained absences.
Begins to take a stronger interest in
his\her appearance; becomes obsessed with losing
weight, gaining weight etc. They will
join a health club, begin bodybuilding, sun-tanning,
etc.
Is offended by small comments that once
went unnoticed.
Will begin to keep company with a certain
person or group of individuals unknown to you
(outside the circle of friends) Many
times this person(s) are their avenue to share guilty
feelings.
Will make comments when questioned or
condemded i.e. "not everyone feels that way."
Will get a post office box with out giving
you a key.
Becomes easily offended when asked of
whereabouts i.e."are you checking up on me!?!"
You will begin to receive hang-up
phone calls.
Will charge up credit cards in
preparation of ending the relationship.
Will begin to consume drugs and/or alcohol.
Will no longer allow you to use the family
credit cards or to see the bill.
May find reasons to get away from familiy
gatherings-to wish holiday greetings to a lover.
Will lose interest in his/her family and
children.
Will become cold and inconsiderate concering
your feelings when they used to care.
Will make statements such as "I'm not
sure I love you anymore" or "You have destroyed
my love for you".
Will begin to buy a new wardrobe and wearing
a new perfume or cologne.
Will arrive home smelling like cologne
or perfume.
May exit the room when receiving phone
calls.
"Very informative page. Lately
my boyfriend has been exhibiting a few of these signs, especially cancelling
out on me with stupid excuses and being inconsiderate. I confronted him
and ended the relationship. I can do much better than him. Your page helped
me see his signs. I can't thank you enough for saving me from being hurt."
Sincerely, Tara
